Dating and purity
became a phenomenon in conservative Christian circles.
It inspired both praise—from the likes of purity matriarch Elisabeth Elliot and Focus on the Family—and book-length rebuttals.
"God made men and women different" "Kevin," I said, hoping I'd also remember the rest of the words I wanted to say, "God did a wonderful thing when he made women." The color fell from his face. I wondered if at any moment he might hop on that motorcycle and bolt! "Actually, God made us different so that men and women would be attracted to one another.
A bride is walking down the aisle toward her beloved on their wedding day.
Whatever the formula, the book became the catalyst for the resurgence of courtship and is often cited as the foundational book for purity culture — a movement that uses biblical principles to encourage men and women to stay virgins before marriage.
All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version.
And so we strove passionately to attain the ideal of premarital purity he laid out for us.
Now, almost 20 years later, even Harris appears to be questioning whether his advice did more harm than good.
I shifted papers, opened drawers, glanced out the window. Finally, my executive assistant informed me that the young man I'd been expecting was waiting for me in the lobby.
Shifted papers, opened drawers, glanced out the window. I felt like I was expecting an important phone call and was just trying to do something, anything, productive while waiting. I was about to interview the first of many young men who wanted a date with one of my daughters.